pro-choice, pro-feminism, pro-woman.
Battling anti-choice shame, stigma, and misinformation since: 03/03/2013

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"Antiprolife" is not a name that sends the wrong message. I am against the pro-life movement and this blog exists to calmly and factually fight against the lies, hatred, stigma, and negativity they spread about abortion.

"Abortion isn't a problem, it's a solution. It's a medically necessary solution to a number of problems that are part of our real lived experiences." Kaitlyn, 4000 years for choice

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"We have to stop categorizing abortions as justified or unjustified. The best thing you can do if you support reproductive rights is to force people to realize that abortion is common, and the most common abortion is a five-to-15-minute procedure elected early in the first trimester by someone who doesn’t want to be pregnant or have a child. It’s our job to say it’s O.K. if that’s the end of the story. It’s O.K. if it’s boring or not traumatic or if you don’t even know what it was."
- This is What an Abortion Looks Like, Merrit Tierce in the New York Times (via seachangeprogram)

Anonymous : The alternatives voicefortheunborn is proposing would certainly lessen the abortion rate by removing obstacles for those in a difficult situation with a WANTED pregnancy. However, it does nothing to provide an alternative for those who don't want to be pregnant. It is always the pregnant person's choice. So in short: I'd love to see those alternatives enacted and supported, but they need to coexist alongside safe, legal abortion.

Exactly. Someone who is unsure of what they want to do should absolutely be presented with every option they have, but the decision has to lie with them in the end.

Just because alternatives exist and work for some people doesn’t mean they’re the end all to abortion. 

To the pro choicers who believe in abortion in cases of financial instability or that pregnancy would interupt life plans and goals i.e getting and education and career etc, how do you feel about alternatives?


For example, if there were programs that offer free or low cost day care on college campuses, or even dorms that cater to students with children, or that offer career placement, welfare that actually covers food, rent etc, do you find those legitimate alternatives to abortions for those scenarios? I’m interested in your opinions.

Of course those are legitimate alternatives to abortion for the people who want to use them. Saying someone can’t have an abortion because these things exist would be silly.

It always has to be up to the pregnant person. 

Anonymous : Do you know of any safe at-home ways of inducing a period/miscarriage? I've heard mega dosing Vitamin C for several days will do it and parsley tea helps as well?


The only safe at-home abortion is done with misoprostol, which can be done up until 12 weeks of gestation. Here is a guide from Women on Waves on how to take misoprostol safely and effectively. Mega doses of vitamin C can be harmful to you, so please, just don’t. If you’re not able to access a clinic in your area or able to afford the procedure, there is help for you, please look into an abortion fund, they’ll be able to help. Please stay safe and strong. - Paige


This is how it should be. Rape is another case to be debated

Why can’t you say you don’t want a baby in both instances? Most people who have become unintentionally pregnant didn’t say “I want a baby!” in the bedroom. 
Sometimes shit happens. Literally any method of contraception you’re using can fail [x].


This is how it should be.
Rape is another case to be debated

Why can’t you say you don’t want a baby in both instances? Most people who have become unintentionally pregnant didn’t say “I want a baby!” in the bedroom. 

Sometimes shit happens. Literally any method of contraception you’re using can fail [x].

Tell GoFundMe that Women Who Seek Abortion Care Aren't Just Like Terrorists and Criminals


As you may or may not know, Gofundme has stopped letting people use their site for funding abortion, despite other medical procedures being funded through them. Sign this petition and spread the word.

If you need help funding an abortion, check out

Anonymous : do you support that view in abortion even when some people get it because they find out the sex of their baby? (ex./ in some cases in india families will abort their child if it is a girl because they want a son to carry on the family name, dowry reasons, etc.)


Someone’s reason for an abortion is not my business. I support people who have abortions because they know themselves best.

The issue with sex-selective abortions is the sexism and misogyny, not the abortion itself. If sex-selective abortions are banned, that puts an undue burden on people from ethnic groups that may practice sex-selective abortion. (This post explains it nicely; pardon the asterisks, it’s an old post and I haven’t had time to update it quite yet).

We should fight the root of the problem (misogyny), not abortion.



Let’s stop HIV in New York City

  • If you are HIV-negative, PEP and PrEP can help you stay that way.
  • If you are HIV-positive, PEP and PrEP can help protect your partners.


Daily PrEP

PrEP is a daily pill that can help keep you HIV-negative as long as you take it every day.

  • Ask your doctor if PrEP (Pre-exposure Prophylaxis) may be right for you.
  • Condoms give you additional protection against HIV, other sexually transmitted infections, and unintended pregnancy.


Emergency PEP

If you are HIV-negative and think you were exposed to HIV, immediately go to a clinic or emergency room and ask for PEP (Post-exposure  Prophylaxis).

  • PEP can stop HIV if started within 36 hours of exposure.
  • You continue taking PEP for 28 days.

Many insurance plans including Medicaid cover PEP and PrEP. Assistance may be available if you are uninsured. Visit NYC Health’s website to find out where to get PrEP or PEP in New York City.

This is such a giant step that barely any people know about it seems, so amazing to see progress in the treatment of HIV

"People around the world use the GoFundMe web site and it’s normally a place for heartwarming campaigns to help people who have adverse medical conditions, who have been in accidents or who are raising money for other people in need or good causes. But one woman is using it to raise funds for her abortion. Bailey’s Abortion Fund has already raised $1,654 of $2,500 by 106 people over the last two days who want to give her their hard-earned cash to pay to kill her baby in an abortion."

Woman Starts GoFundMe Campaign to Pay for Her Abortion So She Can Party | (via conradrocks)

"So she can party."

While Bailey’s GoFundMe was still up, it read: “Bailey is currently unemployed, completely broke, in debt, and in no position to hold down a job due to severe symptoms of a rough, unplanned and unexpected pregnancy.”

Being unemployed? In debt? Experiencing horrible pregnancy symptoms? What a party! I sure wish I were invited! 




tryna find a pro choice blog that actually has the guts to use the word woman instead of “people who get pregnant” or “uterus bearers” tumblr needs to fucking get it together gender cultists ruin everything

A pro-choice blog that has the guts to erase trans and non-binary people, like the vast majority of society does? 

You might have a hard time because most of the people in the pro-choice tumblr community aren’t jerks, but you could always go outside where nearly everyone shares your view. 

dude, there are women who are unable to have children because of biological reasons but you don’t see them trying to make feminists stop using the word woman to refer to females. it’s not erasure of trans people, it’s acknowledging that pro choice issues are women’s health issues and you ignoring that to validate people who refuse to accept reality (read:biology) doesn’t help any women anywhere

Dude, women who can’t have kids due to biological reasons are still women. 

You are erasing trans people when you refuse to acknowledge that they are too a part of the discussion. People who are not women can get pregnant. You erase them when you refuse to acknowledge their existence. 

No one is ignoring that pro-choice issues are women’s health issues. It’s just that they are not just women’s health issues. 

Reality is that trans people and non-binary people are impacted by anti-choice legislation just as much as cis women are. Transphobia is not a good way to help anyone.